Aquaintance/Date Rape
In Same-Sex Dating Relationships
For Men
Male survivors of same-sex sexual violence face a stigma that affects male survivors of heterosexual rape; there is a societal myth that men always want sex and are always willing to engage in it. You have the right to say "no" to anything or anyone that makes you uncomfortable and forces you past your personal sexual boundaries. You have the right to decide what you are comfortable doing. Communicate those boundaries clearly to your partner. It is also essential that you know your partner's boundaries and respect them.
Survivors of same-sex sexual violence sometimes face prejudice in seeking help. Like all male survivors, it is difficult to fight the societal myths that gay men are promiscuous or that only women can be raped. There are a number of resources geared to male survivors and also to the LGBTQ community that will be able to help you handle many of your concerns.
